Screenwriter, director, and producer James Cameron, renowned for his blockbuster successes and on-screen cinematic breakthroughs, recently disclosed some personal, marriage-savvy wisdom. He shares the wisdom he’s learned along the way. Having been married four times before finding lasting happiness with his current wife, Suzy Amis, Cameron’s reflections provide insights into the complexities of love and commitment.
Cameron’s journey to marriage equality started in 1978 when he first married Sharon Williams. Their union lasted until 1984. He did eventually marry producer Gale Anne Hurd in 1985, but the two divorced four years later in 1989. His third marriage to Kathryn Bigelow was from 1989 to 1991. Lastly, he was married to actress Linda Hamilton from 1997 to 1999. Each of these relationships went through some very difficult times. Cameron noted that he was “formally married” for “under a year” in each of these initial marriages.
In 2000, Cameron found a more enduring partnership with actress Suzy Amis, whom he met on the set of his iconic film “Titanic.” Together, they’ve been raising three children, blending their families. Amis has a son named Jasper Robards from a previous relationship. On the home front, Cameron has an eldest daughter, Josephine, from his marriage to the late Judith Hamilton. This family dynamic has contributed to the stability and happiness that Cameron has experienced over the past 25 years with Amis.
Cameron’s current marriage success to the same is largely due to their continuous willingness to learn and understand. He believes that a key aspect of a thriving relationship is “constantly learning about the other person” and making “a pact with yourself to actively want to make them happy.” This attitude extends beyond his bond with Hearth Amis and is a guiding principle in his universal philosophy on strength. He says he is thankful for their mutual devotion and looks forward to another 25 years of life together.
Looking back on his three previous marriages, Cameron admits that he “respected and loved” all of his ex-wives. He acknowledges that he tends to “fall in love with people I can learn from,” highlighting a deep appreciation for personal growth within relationships. He’s learned a lot from his unique experiences. Now, at 50+, he understands how to create a strong, lasting and deeply satisfying relationship.
