Austin and Jack, a couple from the United States, have embarked on a transformative journey that led them to Uruguay, where they have resided for the past two years. Their decision to move came amidst the tumultuous times of the COVID-19 pandemic in 2020, a period that saw many reevaluating their lifestyles and priorities. Initially, the couple struggled to adapt to their new environment, but over time, they have found comfort and contentment in their new home.
Their choice of Uruguay over Spain was primarily driven by practical considerations. Jack's work commitments required him to maintain strong connections with his US-based clients, which necessitated a location conducive to remote work. Uruguay emerged as a favorable option due to its affordability compared to New York and several other US cities. This financial advantage has allowed them to live comfortably on Jack's primary income, supplemented by Austin's teaching job.
“Because we can live, and have lived for the last two years very comfortably, just off of my primary income and Austin teaching.” – Jack
Living in Uruguay has provided Austin and Jack with experiences vastly different from those in New York. One notable observation is the cultural atmosphere, which they find akin to European culture rather than typical Latin American norms. They also appreciate the presence of "a lot less toxic masculinity" compared to the US, which has contributed positively to their social interactions.
Building friendships in Uruguay has been an enlightening experience for the couple. They have found it easier to connect with Uruguayans who were born outside Montevideo, the country's capital. Despite being far from fluent in Spanish, both have been diligently learning the language. Austin has been pleasantly surprised by his progress over time, which has helped them integrate more deeply into the local community.
“The difficulty here has been me finding employment,” – Austin
Living in Parque Rodó, a lively neighborhood in Montevideo, has been a central part of their experience. They initially faced challenges in securing a sizable mortgage to purchase property, leading them to rent an apartment. However, the reluctance of locals to offer a one-year lease remains a hurdle in their housing plans. Despite these challenges, they are considering buying property in the future, fueled by their desire for stability and permanence.
Jack reflects on the broader implications of their move, acknowledging the privilege they hold as US citizens with the freedom to choose where they live. This freedom contrasts sharply with the experiences of many others who face barriers preventing them from returning to their home countries.
“For example, in two years, we’ve gone back to visit family a few times compared to a friend from Venezuela who left eight years ago, hasn’t been back, and doesn’t anticipate ever being able to return,” – Jack
“While we don’t want to move back to the US for our own quality of life and political reasons, it is still seen as a land of opportunity to many people.” – Jack
The couple's journey has not been without its strains. Austin's struggle to find employment has been a significant challenge that has tested their resilience. Despite this, Jack acknowledges that these trials have strengthened their relationship and resolve.
“The strain of it has also forced us to be stronger,” – Jack