Natalie “Nadya” Suleman, famously known as “Octomom,” has resurfaced in the public eye, sharing insights from her life journey since giving birth to octuplets 16 years ago. In 2009, Suleman, a single mother from California, welcomed eight babies, bringing her total number of children to 14. Her decision to have octuplets drew widespread criticism and scrutiny, subjecting her to thousands of death threats and intense public backlash.
Suleman's life has been marked by significant challenges. She struggled financially and had to seek state assistance for a time. To support her large family, she made an adult film, a decision she has since reflected upon. Meanwhile, her children have grown into teenagers, with the oldest now 16 years old. Despite the difficulties, Suleman remains proud of her children and describes them as "some of the most grounded, humble, kind, just genuine human beings I've ever met."
The controversy surrounding Suleman's decision to have octuplets also extended to Dr. Michael Kamrava, the fertility doctor involved in the procedure. Kamrava initially recommended transferring four embryos, but ultimately transferred a dozen at Suleman's insistence. This decision resulted in the birth of the octuplets. He later testified, "at the time I did it, I thought I did the right thing" and acknowledged that he "had to go with the patient." However, the Medical Board of California found he prioritized success rates over patient safety, ultimately revoking his medical license in July 2011.
In response to misconceptions about her motives, Suleman has stressed that seeking fame was never her intention. She aspired to earn a Ph.D. in psychology and live a private life away from the spotlight. Suleman shared, "My goal in life was to earn my Ph.D. in psychology, never be in the public eye, let alone famous, infamous, even worse."
Despite enduring public criticism, Suleman has found solace and support within her family. Her children have encouraged her to share her story and reclaim her narrative. This has led to the upcoming release of her new movie, "I Was Octomom," and a docuseries titled "Confessions of Octomom," set to premiere on Lifetime in March. These projects aim to provide an authentic portrayal of her experiences and challenges over the years.
Reflecting on her journey, Suleman acknowledges she was aware of why she became a target for public disdain. She commented, "I'd known from the beginning why I was the target of misplaced hate. You know, I was well aware."